Skye(July 2012)

This abstract summarizes a podcast recorded in Rotorua, Bay of Plenty, on July 19, 2012, featuring a discussion with a young individual named Skye who identifies as a lesbian. The conversation delves into various aspects of life as a young lesbian in New Zealand during the 2010s, as well as Skye's personal experiences and outlook.

In the podcast, Skye speaks about their aspirations to move to Auckland, driven by the opportunity to join a dance group specializing in hip-hop and R&B. Despite not considering themself a proficient dancer, Skye is invited to audition for a three-month contract with the group.

Skye discusses their schooling at an all-girls school and their passion for all genres of music. Social life plays an important role for Skye, with a lot of socializing taking place at their residence, which is a popular hangout spot for friends.

On gender identity, Skye elaborates on feeling in between feminine and masculine expressions, an identification they term as somewhere between 'Soft Butch' and 'hard-femme'. In terms of sexuality, Skye is forthright about being a lesbian, taking pride in this aspect of their identity, and recognizes having realized this attraction around the age of 10 or 11.

Concerning family dynamics, Skye has an older brother who is also gay, which made it somewhat easier for them to navigate their own sexuality. The discussion sheds light on the various reactions of family members, particularly different attitudes from the parents, with one being more accepting while the other harbors homophobic sentiments.

Skye's coming out experience is touched upon, revealing that they were 'forced' to come out at the age of 13 due to a familial incident. The podcast also shows how Skye inadvertently became a confidante and support for others in the community who were struggling with their own coming out journeys.

Personal relationships and the challenges faced while dating, especially when involved with someone who is not openly out, are contemplated. Skye recounts the difficulties encountered when a partner would not acknowledge their relationship publicly, which led to frustration and a feeling of secrecy that they found unacceptable.

Additionally, Skye explores the concept of virginity within the LGBTQ+ community, suggesting that it can encompass different forms of intimacy and is not limited to heterosexual definitions.

The conversation also covers the issue of abuse and discrimination faced because of Skye's sexual orientation. Skye speaks candidly about experiences ranging from verbal harassment to physical violence, highlighting the societal challenges endured.

The dialogue gives an insight into how Skye meets other LGBTQ+ individuals, emphasizing the importance of community and shared experiences. Although Skye mentions the dissolution of a local group due to internal conflicts, they underline the interconnectedness among people within the LGBTQ+ community.

This summary is created using Generative AI. Although it is based on the recording's transcription, it may contain errors or omissions. Click here to learn more about how this summary was created.

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