Brad(September 2012)

This podcast recording titled "Brad - Q12" takes place in Masterton, Wairarapa, and delves into the experiences of an individual's life as a gay person in 2012, reflecting on their journey through the 1990s. The podcast starts with an introduction of the presenter, who works with children and families in Masterton and has a background in Sydney, Australia. The conversation then shifts to details about their life, including hobbies like riding horses and motorbikes, writing children's books, and enjoying movies with a penchant for chocolate. Comedy ensues when discussing ice cream preferences, particularly the indifference towards plain vanilla compared to French vanilla, which is humorously deemed distinguished.

The conversation then takes a more personal turn as the individual reveals a struggle with the dangers of the gay scene in Auckland, including substance abuse, which eventually led to a breakdown and a return to their original career in Masterton. They touch upon their gender identity and sexual orientation, distinguishing between the two, and mention their Caucasian ethnicity. When discussing their childhood, it emerges that they realized their sexual orientation around the age of 15 but took until 18 to accept it, largely due to the conflict with the Christian values they were raised with.

The individual details the process of coming out to their family at the age of 22 by using humor to navigate the situation, revealing their relationship at the time, and speaks to the supportive and accepting reactions of family members. They also share insights into past romantic relationships, noting that while they've had serious partners, flings have also been a part of their experience, which is candidly discussed as being more common in the gay community.

The subject dwells on their large and quirky step-family, the challenges of meeting people in a small town, and how social networking has played a role in connecting with the LGBTIQ community. The individual speaks on getting involved with support groups, although scheduling conflicts and personal connections made counseling roles challenging.

On a more serious note, the individual notes experiences with abuse, including a confrontation where they stood up to a verbal aggressor, and more traumatically, an instance of sexual assault by someone they knew. Luckily, this type of abuse seems to be a less common occurrence in their life.

The discussion concludes with the individual expressing gratitude for their current support network, including friends and family who stand by them through thick and thin, as well as being a support to younger members of the LGBTIQ community dealing with their own coming-out struggles.

The recording provides valuable insights into the difficulties and societal pressures faced by those grappling with their sexual orientation, the importance of support systems, and the evolving nature of personal identity over time. It encapsulates a snapshot of personal growth and acceptance against the backdrop of societal challenges.

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