Safe Sex (Press, 6 November 1989)

In a correspondence published on 6 November 1989, a discussion unfolded between two writers, Mark Sadler and P. B. Wye, regarding the moral implications of sexual behaviour in modern society. P. B. Wye responded to Sadler's previous commentary by addressing the historical context of the Old Testament, suggesting it reflects the gradual understanding of God's nature by the Jews amid a savage world. Wye posited that while humanity has achieved significant technical progress since the Industrial Revolution, moral development has not kept pace. He highlighted pressing social issues such as venereal diseases, AIDS, rising rates of illegitimacy, and the breakdown of family structures, attributing these challenges to a materialistic mindset and permissive attitudes towards sexuality. Wye questioned whether Sadler found the state of the world, particularly in the United States where pornography is described as both addictive and a major industry with a market value of S2OB to S3OB, acceptable. He implied that the current sexual latitude contributes to disillusionment and heartbreak in relationships. In a follow-up letter, Mark D. Sadler acknowledged Wye’s concerns but offered a somewhat more optimistic perspective. He agreed that a first sexual relationship tends to create stronger emotional bonds compared to subsequent affairs and stressed the significance of taking such experiences seriously. Sadler pointed out the financial burden the government faces due to the high costs of supporting solo parents resulting from failed relationships. He called for a more thoughtful approach from politicians, advocating for investment not only in research on educational programmes like “Safe Sex” but also in exploring the various consequences of differing sexual morality and behaviour. He suggested that producing realistic, well-researched erotic films could shed light on the complexities surrounding sexuality and improve understanding in this critical area of human life. The exchange highlights the tension between evolving social mores regarding sex and the associated societal challenges, reflecting a concern for both emotional and moral considerations in the landscape of contemporary relationships.

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