Sexual Sense And Absurdities (Press, 31 October 1987)

On 31 October 1987, a review by Diane Prout appeared, highlighting four diverse books that tackle the subject of sex and relationships. The first book, "The Modern Girl's Guide to Everything" by Kat Cooke, is a quirky, cartoon-illustrated manual aimed at young women. It covers a wide range of topics, from identifying the right type of man to dealing with sexual harassment in the workplace. The guide includes humorous advice, such as putting prawns in the hubcaps of undesirable partners as a form of revenge and suggests creative ways to decline unwanted advances. Cooke’s writing has been described as funny and designed to appeal to teenage girls, encouraging them to adopt a more irreverent attitude toward sex. The second book, “Single File” by Sarah Murray, conveys the author's personal experiences as she navigates the dating world through singles ads. The book presents a humorous account of her correspondence with potential partners, but Prout notes it may come off as overly naive for a 27-year-old. Despite the risks associated with her approach, particularly concerning A.I.D.S., Murray eventually finds a meaningful relationship after much introspection. Dr. Elliot Philipp’s “Safe Sex” is a more straightforward and educational book focusing on sexual health. It aims to inform readers about intercourse, contraception, and the importance of prevention. The material is designed to be accessible for teenagers and young adults and includes resources such as contacts for Family Planning Associations and S.T.D. clinics in Australia and New Zealand, making it a useful guide in stark contrast to the less informative resources of previous generations. Lastly, Mary Mattis’s "Sex And The Single Parent" discusses the complexities faced by divorced parents who wish to re-enter the dating scene. The book features case studies and addresses emotional challenges arising from new relationships and their impact on children. It explores topics such as integration of new partners into family life and the emotional struggles that come with dating after divorce. Prout mentions that while the book offers valuable guidance, after extensive discourse, it leaves readers questioning whether the emotional turmoil is worth the effort. Overall, these books reflect diverse approaches to understanding sexuality and relationships in the context of the 1980s, each with its unique tone and perspective on the challenges and humorous aspects of love and sex.

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