The Loneliness Of Old Age (Press, 26 May 1984)

In her 1983 novel "We Are Now," author May Sarton presents the poignant story of Caro Spencer, a 76-year-old intelligent and independent professional woman living in an unsatisfactory old people's home due to her declining physical health. This setting, characterized by a lack of compassion from the facility's management, offers little solace for Caro, who finds herself largely abandoned by her relatives. The novel delves into Caro's struggle to uphold her self-respect and maintain her independence in an environment that severely stifles both. The reviewer, Agnes-Mary Brooke, notes that while Sarton attempts to elicit pity and understanding for Caro's plight, she does not entirely succeed in fostering a deep identification with the protagonist. The book contains valuable insights, such as the idea that asking for forgiveness is an act of faith, placing the soul in an eternal context, and the notion that old age is not truly engaging until one experiences it firsthand. However, the novel's climax presents a troubling assertion: that meaningful change can only be achieved through violent action—an opinion that may alienate many readers. Caro's perspective is further underscored by her reflections on relationships and familial bonds, particularly her belief that "Families are great until you need them." Although Caro had a significant romantic relationship, she was resistant to marriage and the compromises that such an institution often entails. Consequently, she mourns the lack of sacrifice and care from more distant relatives, highlighting the loneliness that pervades her existence in the aged care facility. Brooke emphasises that while the novel aims to evoke compassion for those in humiliating and isolating circumstances, it suffers from a certain one-sidedness in its analysis of these issues. Overall, "We Are Now" prompts readers to reflect on the challenges faced by the elderly in society, though its narrative shortcomings may diminish its impact on the audience.

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