Homosexual Adopts Boy Aged 17 (Press, 19 January 1983)

David Frater, a 29-year-old homosexual man from Riverside, California, has achieved what is believed to be the first legal adoption by an openly homosexual individual in the United States, marking a significant milestone for the LGBTQ+ community. On 18 December 1982, Frater was granted permission by Judge George Grover to adopt a 17-year-old boy named Kevin, who will carry Frater's surname. This decision comes after a prolonged two-year application process, during which Frater faced various challenges and scrutiny due to his sexual orientation. Frater's journey towards fatherhood began two years prior when he recognised the emptiness in his life and sought to adopt. His situation is particularly noteworthy as it represents a shift towards greater acceptance and rights for homosexuals in family dynamics. Frater views the success of his adoption as a personal victory as well as a significant achievement for the gay community, demonstrating that sexual preference is merely one aspect of a person's identity and does not determine their capability as a parent. Historically, those in the LGBTQ+ community seeking to adopt often concealed their orientation, fearing it would hinder their chances. However, the Frater case sets a new precedent as Tim Sweeney, executive director of the Lambda Legal Defence and Educational Fund, noted that this instance marks the first successful legal record for a homosexual adoptive parent in court. The case challenges prevalent stereotypes, particularly the unfounded fears surrounding child molestation often directed at gay men. Frater, a marketing specialist who lives with his mother, Irma, articulated his desire to build a family after years of being a surrogate big brother to neighbourhood children. In the adoption, he chose a teenager as he felt it would balance the demands of parenthood with his professional responsibilities. Kevin, who had previously lived unhappily in 14 foster homes, expressed contentment with his new living situation and stated that Frater’s sexual orientation did not concern him. Kevin described their relationship positively, appreciating Frater's support for his personal interests. The significance of this adoption is further amplified by recent trends in the broader LGBTQ+ movement. In December 1982, the San Francisco County supervisors also attempted to pass a law granting partnership rights to homosexuals akin to those enjoyed by married couples, although this initiative was ultimately vetoed by Mayor Dianne Feinstein, who deemed it too vague. Frater’s experience with the Riverside County Department of Public Social Services during the adoption approval process was fraught with delays and challenges. He claimed to have faced harassment and a series of psychological evaluations for him and his household members, which he attributed to the discovery of his sexual orientation after an anonymous tip. Overall, the successful adoption by David Frater stands as both a personal triumph and a pivotal moment in the ongoing struggle for LGBTQ+ rights in the United States, signalling progress in the fight against discrimination and societal stereotypes.

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