Millionaire’s Guide To Good Manners (Press, 29 October 1980)

Charlotte Ford, heiress and daughter of Henry Ford II, recently released a manual titled “Charlotte Ford’s Book of Modern Manners,” emphasising the enduring value of good manners in today’s society. Published on 29 October 1980, the book aims to guide readers through contemporary social dilemmas that traditional etiquette experts like Emily Post and Amy Vanderbilt would have never addressed, especially in the context of modern relationships and family dynamics. Ford argues that while the situations we encounter may have changed, the principles of good manners remain constant. She offers practical advice on navigating complex scenarios such as how to accommodate cohabiting couples or handle unexpected social encounters without causing a scene. With an emphasis on discretion and common-sense, Ford insists that good manners can help resolve any social dilemma. For example, she suggests that if a person spends the night at someone’s home, they should leave before the children wake up to maintain an air of discretion. Raised in a well-to-do environment in Grosse Point, Michigan, where manners were highly valued, Ford admits that her life experiences inspired her to write the book. Following her marriage to Greek shipping magnate Stavros Niarchos, which ended in divorce after just 14 months, Ford reflects on her life’s ups and downs and the necessity of etiquette in navigating her personal and professional worlds. Now living in Manhattan, Ford runs a fashion business while balancing her responsibilities as a mother to her 13-year-old daughter, Elena. Although her wealth and background set her apart, she approaches the fashion industry with a straightforward and pragmatic mindset. Throughout her experiences, Ford has become more resilient, acknowledging the necessity of adapting to the business landscape and showing toughness in a competitive field. Despite her high-profile marriages and the challenges that came with them, including her relationship with Niarchos and Anthony Forstmann, she considers herself fortunate and maintains amicable relationships with her ex-husbands. She believes that manners, even in the professional realm, could significantly improve conditions for many individuals. Ford’s narrative illustrates that while her life may be far removed from the average person’s experience, the core values of kindness and respect are universal and vital for navigating modern complexities.

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