In this podcast Kerry Brown talks about growing up in a small town and coming out. This podcast was funded by a generous donation from Roger Smith.
Summary
This summary covers an audio recording of an interview between Wai Ho and Kerry Brown, conducted in Wellington, New Zealand, on June 11, 2010. The interview focuses on Kerry Brown’s experiences of identifying as gay, their coming out journey, and the queer community in Wellington during the 2010s.
Growing up in North Canterbury, a region close to Christchurch, Kerry Brown faced the stereotypical expectation of homophobia associated with small towns. Although experiencing some homophobia, Brown notes that the most intense encounter occurred in Wellington, when a friend was assaulted due to their sexuality. This incident underscored the risks of being openly queer in certain environments.
In the discussion about coming out, Brown details their gradual personal process, starting with confiding in close friends during their 6th form year of school before eventually having discussions with their family upon moving to Wellington. Brown recalls supportive gestures from their mother, who openly showed positive stances on queer issues, as well as from friends who helped them through tough personal times. These allies were crucial in Brown's ability to embrace their identity.
Addressing stereotypes and stigmas within the queer community, Brown expresses dismay at the hostility sometimes directed towards notably queer individuals, such as drag queens. They highlight the strength and bravery of those who visibly embrace their queer identity and contribute to the community, despite the potential for targeted homophobia.
Brown speaks passionately about the importance of understanding and embracing diversity within the queer community, the significance of strong support systems for youth, and the courage it takes for individuals to be visible and potentially face discrimination.
Reflecting on their experience of migrating to Wellington, Brown describes it as a hopeful journey that didn't immediately fulfill their expectations of finding a "queer Mecca." Brown faced challenges integrating into the queer community, recounting a specific negative encounter at a party where they were judged for their appearance. Over time, however, they did manage to find a sense of belonging through various social and voluntary engagements, like movie nights with UniQ—a university-based social group—and mentoring other queer individuals through various organizations.
As Brown deliberates over the concept of having a family, they acknowledge that while it might not mirror a traditional setup, it is possible for them to establish one that is unique and special. This touches upon the evolving perceptions and possibilities for queer individuals regarding family life.
Brown concludes by affirming a commitment to remain actively involved in the queer community, contributing to its growth and support of individuals, regardless of any changes in their personal relationships or identification.
The content of this recording, as described in the transcript, provides a personal glimpse into the complexities of navigating sexuality and community belonging in a small town and urban environment. It highlights the progress and continued struggles within the queer community throughout the 2010s in New Zealand.
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