Aussie reality salon makeover queen Tabatha Coffey has revealed she has some sharp retorts for people who are shocked when they find out she is a lesbian. “It bothers me because I don’t know what we’re ‘supposed’ to look like," the Tabatha Takes Over host has told Huffington Post Live. "I just don’t get it and I hate stereotypes whatever they are. So, it does annoy me, and all we can keep doing is showing all the different varieties of us, proudly, and change whatever stereotypes are out there.” Coffey lives in New Jersey with her partner of more than a decade.