Bob McCoskrie The anti-equality brigade has quickly charged into the debate over marriage equality in New Zealand, with Family First’s Bob McCoskrie saying gay marriage is an oxymoron, as marriage is about “sexual intercourse between a man and a woman” leading to children. “Marriages are a matter of significant public concern, as the record of almost every culture shows. If it weren’t for the fact that sexual intercourse between a man and a woman leads to children and brings with it a further obligation to care for those children, the notion of marriage would probably never have existed, and the state would not have been interested in it,” McCoskrie says in a statement released this morning, which GayNZ.com Daily News is sharing in full: “Marriage encourages the raising of children by the mother and father who conceived them. On average, children raised by their biological parents who are married have the best outcomes in health, education and income, and by far the lowest involvement with the criminal justice system. As Prominent Irish homosexual and political commentator Richard Waghorn says, this is certainly not to cast aspersions on other families, but it does underscore the importance of marriage as an institution. “It is true that marriage by definition is discriminatory. A homosexual cannot now legally marry. But neither can a whole lot of other people. A five-year old boy cannot marry. Three people cannot get married to each other. A married man can’t marry another person. Two old aunties living together cannot marry. A father cannot marry his adult daughter. A football team cannot enact group marriage - the list is endless. It is disingenuous to complain about rights being taken away, when they never existed in the first place. “Gays can get married. But they don’t want to. And that is their right. “It is also important to note that marriage is not solely a religious belief. Marriage is a social practice and every culture in every time and place has had some institution that resembles what we know as marriage, associated with procreation. Every society needs natural marriage. “If the law were to allow same-sex marriage, and only same-sex marriage, we would then be discriminating against those seeking open, temporary, polygymous, polyandrous, polyamorous (group), or incestuous (adult) unions – if all that counts is love and commitment. “As Phil Goff argued at our 2011 Forum on the Family conference, same-sex couples have the option of civil unions to recognise their relationship so there is no need for redefining marriage. “Supporters of same sex marriage argue that civil unions are a 2nd-class type of marriage. But there are many same-sex advocates who argue against ‘marriage’ for same sex couples, and even suggest that the claim is hurtful to those who have deliberately chosen civil unions. “Same-sex marriage is, by definition, an oxymoron. Equality does not mean we must redefine marriage for everyone. “Being pro-marriage and wanting to maintain its definition as being between a man and a woman is not ‘anti-gay’. “Gays and lesbians do have a right to form meaningful relationships – they just don’t have a right to redefine marriage. “The state - which did not invent marriage - has no authority to re-invent it.”
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First published: Friday, 11th May 2012 - 10:55am