Session 6

The abstract focuses on a session recorded during the C.L.I.T Fest Wellington 2013, centered around the themes of desire, social currency, and the societal construction of desire in relation to stigmatized and non-normative bodies, specifically trans bodies. During the session, speakers Dee Dewitt and Wai Ho discuss complex issues related to identity, objectification, fetishization, and the intersectionality of race, weight, ability, sexual orientation, and class. They explore the derogatory language and objectification imposed upon trans individuals, particularly trans women, and detail the limited social currency they possess due to this fetishization. This tendency shapes personal and social relationships, influencing how desire for trans people is viewed in terms of perceived deviancy or fetishistic interest.

The conversation extends to the broader queer and feminist scenes, addressing the varying degrees of agency afforded to people depending on their gender expressions. The speakers highlight how masculine and butch individuals may receive more social agency, whereas feminine expressions are often seen as complicit in one's own objectification. They note how these dynamics are magnified in the queer and feminist communities, and that the radical spaces that should facilitate inclusivity and open discussions of desire often fail to do so, especially for trans individuals.

The speakers delve into personal anecdotes and wider social observations regarding the formation of desires and attractions. They argue that societal representations and stereotypes can heavily influence individual preferences, shaping subconscious ideas of what is considered 'normal' or 'desirable.' Moreover, the lack of positive media representation of trans individuals aggravates the stigmatization and creates barriers to healthy self-image and relationships. The difficulties of navigating attraction in a society filled with imposed norms are openly discussed, with reflections on how individuals might unconsciously relegate certain types of people to categories of desirability based on societal standards.

As the session progresses, participants candidly share their experiences and raise concerns regarding the visibility and societal acceptance of their bodies and desires. The overarching theme highlights the struggle for trans individuals and other marginalized groups to find affirmation and acceptance, both within their communities and the wider society, while challenging the normative concepts of beauty, attraction, and worthiness.

Concluding the session, the speakers call for more inclusive and affirming spaces where trans people can speak freely about their bodies and desires without fear of judgment or fetishization. They express the need for compassion, understanding, and the freedom to explore and articulate individual preferences outside the boundaries of societal expectations.

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Dee Dewitt Wai Ho

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