Glenda

This abstract summarizes an interview with Glenda Gale, conducted by Jac Lynch on April 12, 2015, in Lower Hutt, Aotearoa New Zealand. Glenda Gale discusses a range of personal experiences, societal attitudes, and historical events spanning from the 1920s through the 2010s.

Gale opens by reflecting on a childhood as part of a non-traditional family structure in the conservative era of the 1950s. Raised by a solo parent, Gale speculates that this unique upbringing may have influenced their own identity and journey into understanding one's sexuality. Despite the conservatism of the era, Gale's mother and grandmother were strong, independent figures who defied societal norms – Gale's grandmother divorced in the 1920s, and their mother made the radical decision to have a child despite the father being married to someone else.

Gale discusses the difficulties and societal pressures faced by their mother as a solo parent, including resistance against social welfare's suggestion to give up the newborn twins for adoption. Gale's twin passed away shortly after birth, which Gale believes had a profound and lasting impact on their life.

Gale shares insights into the complex relationships within the family, including how Gale's mother reacted negatively when learning about Gale's sexuality, despite their own non-conformist life choices. This revelation could have offered Gale's mother a sense of mainstream acceptance had Gale chosen a more traditional path such as marriage and becoming a parent.

Moving on to Gale's own experiences, the discussion covers Gale's educational journey, their sense of always feeling different, and their earliest same-sex attractions. Gale recounts the first serious relationship, the challenges it presented, and its eventual end. They also touch upon their friendship with another sibling, developed later in life.

Moreover, the interview delves into social contexts, highlighting the cultural scene at places like Carmen's Coffee Lounge, which served as a sanctuary for queer individuals during less tolerant times. Gale also recalls incidents of homophobia and the solidarity they felt among fellow LGBTQ+ community members.

Gale's participation in activism is particularly highlighted, such as their personal approach to advocacy during the homosexual law reform movement in New Zealand, employing direct and personal tactics rather than conventional methods.

An important facet of Gale's identity is their relationship with performance and expression. They reflect on early performances during high school, development of queer personas, and later involvement with the drag king community and performing at lesbian clubs.

Closing the interview, Gale discusses the meaning and personal relevance of the term "butch," their fluctuating relationship with fashion and gender expression, and their participation in the "Butch on Butch" photo exhibition. Despite not always fitting into the stereotypical definitions associated with butch identity, Gale embraces their unique blend of characteristics, wearing it as a badge of honor and authenticity.

The interview is rich with historical context, demonstrating how personal experiences intersect with broader social movements and queer culture over the decades. It also provides insights into how individual life stories contribute to an understanding of LGBTQ+ history and identity in Aotearoa New Zealand.

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Glenda Gale

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