Vee

The podcast titled "Vee - Beyond Rainbows," recorded in Wellington, Aotearoa New Zealand, features an intimate conversation with Vee, who shares insights into their identity and the complexities of navigating various aspects of it, including their queer and gender identity, body image, mental health, and experiences with acceptance and community.

Vee discusses breaking away from stereotypical notions of how one 'should' present themselves within the queer community. Initially believing that being queer meant adopting a butch persona, Vee later embraced the freedom to wear dresses or plaid and docks, acknowledging the fluidity and personal nature of their femme identity. They highlight the challenge of feeling invisible when their appearance doesn't fit typical expectations within gay spaces and the assumptions made about their sexuality by others.

Vee's journey through understanding their gender and sexuality involved navigating labels from bisexual to lesbian, and eventually settling with 'queer' as a term that encompassed both their sexual and gender identifications. They remarked upon the political significance of reclaiming the word 'queer' and the complexities of existing in a space not strictly male or female. Vee's realization of their identities and the politics surrounding them was significantly aided by interactions on social media platforms like Tumblr and Twitter, which provided support and diversified their understanding of feminism and body politics.

Within the queer community, Vee identifies a lack of physically inclusive spaces and the difficulty in maintaining relationships due to mental unwellness. Vee underscores the internet's crucial role as a supportive community, particularly when their mental health made it challenging to engage with others in person.

Vee also touches upon how clothes and makeup serve as critical tools of self-expression, with the personal significance of these choices sometimes being misunderstood or dismissed by others. They reflect on makeup as a medium through which both femme and gender non-conforming individuals can express their femininity, regardless of their gender identity.

The interviewee also shares their experience with coming out and the painful disconnect with a parent who struggled to accept their sexuality. Vee conveys empathy for those who may be navigating a similar path, emphasizing the importance of surrounding oneself with accepting and respectful individuals.

The discussion also covers Vee's take on broader issues within the LGBTQ+ community, such as the need to support and prioritize trans rights and concerns, particularly for trans women of color. They express frustration at the white-centric focus within the rainbow community and call for more inclusive advocacy and empathy for marginalized queer identities.

Vee candidly shares the complexity of their identities, the triumphs and struggles of their journey, and the broader challenges the queer community faces. They underscore the significance of community, both online and offline, and the power of shared experiences and mutual support in navigating and affirming one's diverse identities.

The abstract summarizes key points from Vee's powerful testimony on self-discovery, identity, acceptance, and activism within the context of the evolving LGBTQ+ landscape during the 2010s in Aotearoa New Zealand. It calls attention to resilience, the value of a supportive community, and the necessity of recognizing and fighting for the rights and visibility of the most marginalized in the queer community.

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