Kiran and flatmates

The interviewees describe their living situation as a safe house for largely disabled, trans, and queer individuals, revealing a real demand for safe accommodation within the community. They highlight the struggle to find flatmates and housing in Auckland, which is exacerbated by the city's housing crisis. Stereotypes and discrimination compound their difficulties, as visibly queer individuals face challenges in accessing accommodation due to widespread prejudices.

The safe house is also depicted as a space for recovery and survival, where the residents navigate mental health issues, including PTSD, in the support of one another. The occupants participate in activities such as drinking games, though these are characterized as possibly an unconscious coping mechanism for navigating their traumas within an ostensibly safe environment.

Discussed at length is the notion that mainstream gay rights activism falls short of addressing the intricate challenges faced by this marginalized group. Issues such as safe housing, mental health, and the need for queer, trans, and disabled voices to be reflected accurately and adequately in activism and social support systems are underscored.

The discussion criticizes the mainstream LGBT movement for its focus on achieving marriage equality, to the detriment of broader concerns like housing crises and intersectional discrimination. The interviewees emphasize that the completion of marriage equality does not equate to a total resolution of the struggles faced by all queer individuals, particularly for trans youth and people of color who continue to face violent aggression and homelessness. They express disdain for the commodification of gay rights, exemplified by the financial emphasis on marriage rather than the harsh realities of marginalized queer lives.

They express their disillusionment with activist groups and describe their safe house as a hub for individuals who need respite and inclusivity, often taking in people who have nowhere else to go. The safe house operates under significant capacity stresses, sometimes accommodating as many as twelve people. There is an aspiration to expand and acquire a second house to relieve the pressure and continue providing a safe space. The occupants also mention challenges in establishing supportive connections with broader groups and organizations due to perceived judgements and lack of trust.

Activism, they state, is a necessity rather than a choice; described as "yell or die" activism, due to its urgency and the reality that without advocacy, their needs would go unnoticed and unmet. The interviewees conclude with a call to those with the means to provide support and to others who sympathize with their plight to join them in solidarity.

The recorded discussion serves as an important insight into the intersectional experiences of queer, trans, and disabled individuals who live daily through the complexity of marginalization, often feeling invisible even within their broader community. Despite the struggles, the interviewees embody a resilience that is both formidable and inspiring, determined to advocate for genuine change and awareness.

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