Nicki and Megan

This summary presents a poignant retrospective on the creation of a quilt panel, a memorial dedicated to the life and memory of Robin, as reflected upon by Robin's sibling, Nicki, and their niece, Megan. The conversation, recorded at the Museum of New Zealand Te Papa Tongarewa, captures the essence of Robin's life and the profound impact of their passing from AIDS.

Robin's panel, part of the New Zealand AIDS Memorial Quilt, is deeply personal and interconnected with their family's story. It features various symbols - including a map of Waiheke Island indicating their birthplace, a dolphin representing their free spirit, a sun emblematic of their love for summer, and tartan highlighting their Scottish heritage. The quilt is further personalized with Robin's initials, a tribute to their fondness for the Mardi Gras and activist history, and handprints of their nieces and nephew symbolizing the intersection of life and death within the family's timeline.

For Nicki and the family, creating the panel served as both an honoring and healing process. They recalled the difficulty of encapsulating Robin's life in the fabric, balancing the representation of Robin as a proud gay individual and a cherished family member. Integrating the social context of HIV/AIDS, the family effort in crafting the quilt became a medium for education and destigmatization during a period when the disease was highly misunderstood.

The panel's significance extends beyond artistic expression to encompass the activism and personal growth experienced through Robin's life and death. Megan articulates the educational aspect of the quilt panel, using their personal narrative to inform others about HIV/AIDS, and the evolving perspective of the disease as universally threatening, rather than exclusive to the gay community.

The quilt's educational purpose manifested powerfully when it was taken to Carterton Girls High School. The family sensed an opportunity to foster open communication about grief and illness among teens, broadening awareness and acceptance. Contributions from a woman living with HIV emphasized inclusivity in the narrative, a testament to the pivotal role of the quilt in community healing and understanding.

Recalling the quilt's journey and the broader history behind each panel, Nicki underlines the personal labor of love imbued in every stitch and narrative. While the quilt immortalizes the people it commemorates, it also echoes the shared experiences of love, loss, and activism. As the quilt finds its permanent home in Te Papa, it represents a cherished collective memory, a lasting acknowledgment of lives that continue to influence and unite a community. The quilt's integration into the museum signifies a culmination of personal, national, and global narratives, offering both solace and testimony to the enduring spirit of those represented within its fabric.

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Megan Butcher Nicki Eddy

1990s, 2010s, aotearoa new zealand, beverly jelicich, catherine tizard, hiv / aids, megan butcher, museum of new zealand te papa tongarewa, new zealand aids memorial quilt, nicki eddy, wellington

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